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Do Men Receive Child Support and Alimony After Separation?

The story is somewhat etched into popular culture.

A couple separate, but they have children, so the man or the father has to pay alimony and support to the mother. And, if the show is a comedy, the amount that he needs to pay will be ridiculously high!

But, this is based on the idea that mothers are always awarded custody of the child or children. As this is determined on a case-by-case basis, in 2023, it may now be found that the child or children would be better supported under the care of the father.

So, do the aforementioned rules change? This article aims to answer that question and more.

What is Alimony?

First, it is important to start with basic terminology.

Alimony is a court-ordered payment from one spouse to the other following a separation or divorce. The purpose of the payment is to provide financial support to the spouse who has a lower income or who has been out of the workforce for an extended period of time—usually due to the care of the children or the household. The amount and duration of alimony payments are determined by the court based on factors such as the couple's income and assets, the length of the marriage, and the earning potential of each spouse. Alimony payments can be made on a temporary or permanent basis and can be adjusted or terminated.

If you aren't sure if you are liable to make alimony payments, head to Two Healthy Homes for more advice on this matter.

Can Men Get Alimony?

In a word, yes. Fathers, if they are the lower-earning partner and are given custody of the children, can receive alimony.

In most cases, alimony and child support are paid by the spouse with a higher income to the spouse with a lower income after a separation or divorce. Historically, this has been the husband in the majority of cases, but as more women enter the workforce and earn higher salaries, the number of men being paid alimony and child support is increasing. Ultimately, whether or not a man receives alimony or child support is determined on a case-by-case basis, taking into account the couple's individual circumstances.

Why Would a Father Get Primary Custody?

It's important to note that primary custody refers to the parent with whom the child primarily resides, and the other parent is usually awarded joint legal custody, which means both parents have equal rights and responsibilities to make decisions about the child's upbringing, education, health, and welfare.

But, there are many reasons why a father, rather than a mother, would receive primary custody of a child or children.

This includes the ability of the father to provide a stable and loving home for the children and his ability to cooperate and make joint decisions about the children's care.

Courts will also explore the relationship of the children with each parent, the age and development of the children, the physical and emotional health of the parents, and the parenting skills and parenting styles of the parents. The work schedule of each parent will also be considered, and the child's preference will be explored (if the child is old enough).

On the darker side of childcare and custody comes abuse. Any reported history of abuse or neglect by either parent, as told by the police or the children, will be used to determine who the child lives with. Although, in this case, you may be looking at gaining sole custody of your child's or children's wellbeing.

So, if you are a father who is curious if he can get alimony from his former spouse to help with the upkeep of your children, seek legal advice today.

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